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Bill Drayton on Kids as Change-Makers

Kids have from age 3-12 to become change makers -- the kind of people who see the world as a place where they can make a difference and can create new, fun and gratifying ways of getting engaged -- that's according to Bill Drayton, the founder and CEO of Ashoka, and a speaker at the Clinton Global Initiative who got the room buzzing.

"If you have a 14 year old who is not being a change maker, there is something wrong with the education system," said Bill.

According to Bill, when children turn twelve they want to learn how to be really involved in society, and we can give them opportunities to learn to create change, to innovate and engage their family, friends and others in projects of their own design. Kids who learn it never lose it, and kids who don't learn it by age 12, might never.

The old way of dealing with kids was for adults to say to them, "we know and you don't," said Bill. That's how society used to treat women, African Americans and others. Kids are the last group that gets this treatment and the approach shuts down joy and possibilities.

He told the story about a kid in Boston the police caught stealing bicycles. The boy struck the police as particularly resourceful so they got his help setting up a shop called Second Gear Bikes where kids could come to learn how to rebuild bikes, and after a certain number of hours working in the shop, would get a free bike. Since the Cambridge police recover lots of abandoned bikes, supply was easy. Many kids have come through program, and have been changed by it, and Jason, the kid who got it started, "is not in jail, but went on to college."

Each person who acts as a changemaker effects 50 people, according to Bill, so when "100,000 Americans start an idea 5 million Americans are having that experience."

Bill said, "I get upset when people say not everyone can be a changemaker. You don't have to be brilliant. You have to believe. Once you have the ability, you have it. We need to start creating this competence. We can do this for kids and not to do this is outrageous."

Helene Gayle of CARE announces $150 million commitment for women and kids

Continuing the maternal health conversation, Helene Gayle who runs CARE is one impressive woman. She's beautiful, articulate, delightful and we got to talk today about what she's passionate about - making a big impact on the health of women around the globe in just five years.


"This is an incredibly exciting time. I think we can put maternal health on the agenda and have real-time results that are measurable in a very short time," said Helene.

"Women are on the forefront and are excellent organizers. Mothers are passionate about motherhood. They understand. They don't want other mothers to face the ultimate tragedy.

"One woman dies from complications during pregnancy or childbirth every minute. Half of them die because of bleeding. This is preventable. We know what to do.

"We've been accepting the deaths of huge numbers of women and not lifting a finger, writing off these lives as though they're expendable and don't have value.

"When children lose their mothers, the whole family suffers. Mothers are the cornerstone of healthy communities. Of healthy nations.

"In five years, if we do this right, your readers will be able to say they've been a part of a movement that turned around one of the greatest tragedies on the planet, and that's very inspiring."

"The impact in a short time will be tangible."

Helene announced yesterday that CARE International has committed to raise $150 million to provide 30 million women and children better healthcare and nutrition. Very cool.

Clinton and the Clinton Global Initiative

Former President Clinton hosted a press conference today - my first presidential press conference and there I was in the second row (yeah bloggers!). Whatever your politics … Clinton is doing a great thing in organizing the Clinton Global Initiative and connecting governments, businesses, nonprofits and others to change the world by making specific commitments of money, time and action.

There's a live feed online -- last year 50,000 people tuned in. So far, 450,000 have watched.

Back to the press conference. A woman asked Clinton his thoughts on the health of women and girls around the world. Here's his response (what I got of it writing as fast as I could):

"150,000 years ago the first homosapiens lived in Africa. They spent about 90,000 years wandering around Africa, and then they started finding their way to other continents. About 30,000 years ago, they inhabited all the continents and about 8,000 years ago we saw the first civilizations.

"So, we went from zero to 6.5 billion people in about 150,000 years.

"In 46 years, we'll have 9 billion people.

"The way to deal with this growth is to educate girls and help them make a living because we know then that girls will delay marriage, delay childbearing, will have fewer kids, and will create stronger families.

"Rich countries are struggling to keep up with population replacement levels. Developing countries can't support the populations they have now.

"We need to see women's empowerment in the context of other crises in the world. The education and expansion of economic opportunities for women will slow population growth, will encourage men to stay where they are born, reducing terrorism and immigration issues, and will reduce climate change.

"We just need to look at what happens in places where there's equal access to education. I think the immigration debate might flip because developed countries won't have enough people to fund their economies and people won't be leaving their countries of birth to find opportunities elsewhere."

So, according to the former President, the health of the globe depends on educating and empowering girls.

Angelina Jolie and The Clinton Global Initiative

Angelina Jolie just announced a commitment to educate one million children in areas of conflict. She stood on a stage in a small press room with the leaders of 15-20 organizations behind her and talked about the needs of kids around the globe who are going uneducated because of conflict raging around them.

She started off by saying, "It's a great honor to get to know children of refugees. They will have no floor, no pens, having not had breakfast and will just sit quietly to hear a teacher talk. These are kids who can be overwhelmed by despair and violence, or they can grow up and become teachers and help transform their communities."

Angelina announced that over 18 commitments are being made in more than 15 countries as part of the project, and as a result, one million children's lives will be improved. Involved organizations are Nike, the Sesame Workshop, UNICEF, the Save the Children Alliance and others.

When it came time to ask questions, I jumped at the chance (totally nervous of course). Here's what I asked…

"I'm a mom and my life was transformed when our blog became a clearinghouse for the people of the Gulf Coast who lost everything to Katrina. Mothers flooded our site because they wanted to do more than write checks; they wanted to give of themselves. For all of us, it seems, when we become mothers, the world's children become ours, as I imagine you would agree. My question is, for the moms and women, all of us -- we're so busy with our lives, shouldering the burdens of the world, taking care of our families and communities -- but we're online and we can get into action online. How can all of us who care about these issues support you? What would you like to ask us to do?"

Angelina_press_conference_2Angelina gave the floor to several people on the podium with her, including Ann Venemann from UNICEF, and a few others. They emphasized that education should be seen as a right for these kids, and not just a charitable endeavor. These kids are the future of their countries, and educating them is the best thing we can do to reduce future conflicts. They also emphasized how little we in the US know about these issues, and bloggers can accomplish a LOT in getting the word out, in helping to educate us all about what's needed around the world.

Then, as the moderator was about to move on, Angelina jumped in and said, "I'd like to add something. One thing we can do as mothers is to talk to your own children. If we can help our kids understand the world, we can do something for our own understanding and theirs. A lot of these organizations have materials for children. You can show them different schools in different countries and help them appreciate what's going on."

So, that was kinda fun. A conversation with Angelina Jolie. Yeah, there were gazillions of people in the room (how DOES she hold her concentration and finish a sentence with 5,000 cameras with flashes going off every time she smiles?), but it felt like a connection and she seemed to like talking about being a mom.

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Angelina_general_assemblyAngelina just addressed the general assembly and and the conversation was about education. She talked about a boy she met in Afghanistan who was selling tissues (that's how he was making a living). A man with a wound said to the boy, "I'll give you some of my begging money if you'll give me some tissues." The boy said yes, and when the man unwrapped the bandages, the man's wound was covered in maggots. The boy ran away because he was scared. But he came back because he was a good kid, and he helped the man clean his leg wound. When I met them they had been together for a few months, and at that point, they were friends and the boy was helping the man. He was so gentle and did such a good job of cleaning the wound and taking care of him that I asked him, 'You're so good at caring for him, would you like to become a doctor?" He looked at me and said, "I must sell tissues." And I said, "'But if we could find a way for you to be educated and become a doctor, would you like that?" He said, "Yes, I would, but I must sell tissues.'" At that point, she was teary, as were a lot of people in the room. She went on to talk about the kids and say that there are good kids who need the opportunity of education.

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Nicholas Kristof just made the point that a girl in southern Sudan is more likely to die in childbirth than be literate. Maternal mortality and lack of education in Sudan are unfathomable to us here.

Then he asked if everyone on stage had seen that kids in these developing countries are desperate to get educated? Angelina answered, "I took three kids to school to school this morning, and they weren't that excited about it. And here, kids will say things like they want to be an actress - not the noblest profession -- but in these countries, you see kids desperate to go to school and you ask them what they want to be and they want to be great things to help their countries."

Brad Pitt and "Make It Right"

ImagesHere at the Clinton Global Initiative, Brad Pitt just announced a "sustainable building effort for New Orleans, for the Ninth Ward," called "Make it Right."

He said, "These are people who did everything right. They had jobs, they raised their families .. and now it's gone, it's all gone.

"This has been labeled the worst natural disaster in the history of the country. That's not exactly right. It's the worst man-made disaster. This is the result of climate change and decades of irresponsible management of the levees. New Orleans isn't even on the coast, and if we're not careful, it soon will be. The mistakes made here proved fatal. We have a responsibility to right the wrong."

Brad announced that he and Steve Bing will match $5 million in donations for a total of $10 million in contributions to build 150 affordable and sustainable homes.

Live-blogging the Clinton Global Initiative

Here's what's happening today at the Clinton Global Initiative ...

10:03 - They've just announced the names of all the heads of state who are here today (52 of them), representing 72 countries.

Former President Clinton just came on stage. "More than 600 commitments have been made. 20 mllion tons of greenhouse gases avoided, 3 million more micor-entrepreneurs have accessed capital."

"There are nearly 1300 CGI members in the room today. The premise of CGI is we are facing complex problems that governments are not or can't solve.

"Everyone has a different story and we inhabit the world in different ways. Just about everyone in this room believes that our common humanity is more important than our difference."

Continue reading "Live-blogging the Clinton Global Initiative" »

Ricki Lake and Deliver Now

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Ricki Lake -- yes, the television talk show host, movie star Ricki Lake -- has produced a documentary called The Business of Being Born, about giving birth in the U.S., that documents her own and other's birth experiences. Hers was the only film to get a standing ovation at the Tribeca Film Festival, so it's got some positive buzz going (release date - October 22).

Ricki is giving interviews this week because she's a big supporter of Deliver Now for Women and Children, and is hosting a lunchtime rally for Deliver Now in Bryant Park, NY with Chaka Khan performing tomorrow at 1 pm. Here's what Deliver Now is all about:

Deliver Now for Women & Children is a new global campaign to reduce maternal and child deaths. The Deliver Now campaign will draw the world's attention to the more than ten million deaths of women and children which occur each year, mainly in developing nations. Most of these deaths can be prevented through greater political commitment, increased investment in health services and support for communities to demand better access to quality health care.

As Ricki said, "If you lose the mother, you lose the nuclear family.

"Mothers do it all. Here I am talking to you, but I'm also thinking about making sure the kids' school lunches are packed for school when I'm not there tomorrow.

"When you look at the statistics of how many women are dying in childbirth, it's shocking. We all really need to speak up and speak out so we're heard on this."

If you want to join the campaign and support Ricki and Deliver Now, text "NOW" to 23907 tomorrow between 1:00 - 2:00 pm (EST).

Good luck, Ricki, with the release of your film in October, and with everything you're doing for women and kids!!!

Moms Deserve Equal Rights Pennsylvania Rally and Lobby Day - October 2

Next week Emily and I head for Harrisburg, PA for the Moms Deserve Equal Rights Rally.

We will be representing MomsRising, and joining forces with Kiki Peppard, The PA Commission for Women, PA NOW and 9 to 5.

Here's some information on the rally:

Moms Deserve Equal Rights

In Support of HB280 & SB280, Press Conference, Rally & Lobby Day

October 2, 2007, 10:00 a.m.
Capitol Rotunda, Harrisburg, Pennsylvania

Did you know that in Pennsylvania women can still be discriminated against at work, in housing and access to public accommodations, because of marital and family status? For example, today, Pennsylvania employers may refuse to hire or promote women (or men) with families or other caregiver responsibilities, or otherwise discriminate against them even if their responsibilities do not interfere with their work.

The PA Human Relations Act was established in 1955, and it is long past time to amend it to reflect modern society, where the majority of women are working both inside and outside the home and deserve to be measured equally. Legal protection from family responsibility and marital status discrimination is an essential if women are to receive equality, especially at work.

Please join us at the State Capitol and stand up against this dangerous form of discrimination, and speak out for women’s equal rights to legislators.

We will gather in the Capital Rotunda to urge legislators to act now to protect women and other family caregivers from discrimination and to demand passage of HB280 & SB280—amendments to the PA Human Relations Act to outlaw marital or familial status discrimination in employment, housing and public accommodations.

We will hold a press conference/rally with several distinguished speakers, including Representative Dally, Senator Orie, and representatives of the PA Human Relations Commission, the PA Commission for Women, the National Organization for Women, MomsRising.org and 9to5 National Association of Working Women. Following the rally, we will visit our legislators throughout the Capitol to communicate our powerful message, that it is time to put a stop to maternal and family responsibility profiling in Pennsylvania.

We need your help to deliver essential information about this issue, including MomsRising.org’s The Motherhood Manifesto, to every Pennsylvania Senator and Representative.

Please call ahead to make an appointment with your Representative and Senator and join us in delivering this critical message. If you are unable to participate in this event, we encourage you to write to your legislator, in support of House Bill 280 and Senate Bill 280. You can look up contact information for your legislators at http://www.legis.state.pa.us/cfdocs/legis/home/find.cfm.

If you are in Pennsylvania, or anywhere for that matter, and want to join us, the event is on October 2 at 10 am at the State Capitol. Let us know, we'd love to see you there!

Clinton Global Initiative

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I am so excited about this. The Clinton Global Initiative has granted me a press pass to live-blog the conference!

The Initiative is all about "action-oriented discussion" with world leaders to come up with "viable solutions with tangible results". This year's focus is on:

- education
- energy and climate change
- global health
- poverty alleviation

One of the first sessions of the first day is on ... get this ... maternal health. How perfect is that? BlogHers Act votes to make something happen on maternal health, and the world lines up. I'm going to interview everyone I can get in front of (think Brad Pitt has time for the bloggers?), and am putting my questions together now. I'd love suggestions, so if you have questions you'd like asked, let me know and if I can get answers, I'll post them and link back to you.

One question I can't shake is along the lines of, "Do you (or your organization) have plans to tap the enormous community of women who are online and want to make a difference? We're busy and strapped for time, but with the web, we can get involved in new ways. What's your approach to reaching women online, and what can we do to help?"

Here's another thought ... "Have you seen new ways that organizations are recruiting volunteers and keeping them engaged? Does the web factor into these efforts?"

Please weigh in. I'd love your help!

Additionally, if you're a NYC-based blogger, there's a lunchtime event/concert at 1:00 pm in Bryant Park on Wednesday in support of Deliver Now, the maternal health project the Prime Minister of Norway is kicking off that day at the CGI. Ricki Lake, Chaka Khan and others will be there, and bloggers are hugely welcome. Email me the link to your posts (emily@themotherhood.com) and I'll include them in my roundup.

A CMU Professor says farewell

Wow. Please read this article from the Pittsburgh Post-Gazette about Carnegie Mellon University professor and father of three young children, Randy Pausch, who is dying of cancer.

Yesterday Prof. Pausch delivered his farewell lecture, Really Achieving Your Childhood Dreams, and you can watch an excerpt here. Here is a description of the lecture:

Almost all of us have childhood dreams: for example, being an astronaut, or making movies or video games for a living. Sadly, most people don't achieve theirs, and I think that's a shame. I had several specific childhood dreams, and I've actually achieved most of them. More importantly, I have found ways, in particular the creation (with Don Marinelli), of CMU's Entertainment Technology Center (http://www.etc.cmu.edu/), of helping many young people actually *achieve* their childhood dreams. This talk will discuss how I achieved my childhood dreams (being in zero gravity, designing theme park rides for Disney, and a few others), and will contain realistic advice on how *you* can live your life so that you can make your childhood dreams come true, too.

What an amazing man. My thoughts are with Professor Pausch and his family today as they face the next few months.

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photo credit: Pittsburgh Post-Gazette


UPDATE: Good Morning America ran a story about Prof. Pausch this morning (9/21) and you can read/watch it here.